Love is not perfect, it is does not always bring joy and happiness. It is a package of good and bad emotions that brings pleasure and sorrow to the heart.
The heart is still a muscle and like any other muscle in the body, it rests when it's tired. This instances may call for cool-offs or worse, break ups.
A couple needs time to think what has happened so that they can pin point their mistakes, admit it and reconcile after a fight. That is how they cool off. It may take a while but in some cases, it takes forever for a man or a woman to accept faults or even identify the problem which results to separations.
Separations. If your worth has been taken for granted, there is no more trust, faith, love, respect, and you don't know what you have become anymore - it is considered as an unhealthy relationship. If all ways have been tried, yet it failed, separation is a must before you could hurt each other and every one around you.
After a while, your partner will find another to love and cherish the way he did to you before - maybe even better! And you'll find yourself in the corner of your dark room crying, reminiscing the past, praying that he'll come back to your arms shouting your name and offering a favorable lifetime with you but what if all fail and what you've hoped for will never come true? Will you still hope for the uncertain tomorrow or will you make a secure future? If you want to make it all well, MOVE ON!
Moving on. It takes a lot of courage to let go of the past and face the future. It's a hard task but when you're at it, make the right choices to be a better person. Be someone who will be powerful enough to look back on the glimpse of what has been. Pick up the pieces of your broken soul and rebuild an improved foundation of your being. Always be the best version of yourself.
Here are some tips on how to move on from a heartbreak:
- Show what you really feel. It is alright to cry, shout and be furious about the break up but don't focus all your energy on such, remember that there is more to life than these.
- Clean up. Dispose photographs, letters, e-mails, messages, gifts and other memoirs that may remind you of the person who hurt you.
- Do something productive. Focus your time and energy to your studies, work, and friend.
- Be the better version of yourself. Go to the spa, salon, buy good clothes, read books, exercise, do charity works and other things that may help to bring the best in you.
- Be positive. Think that everything happens for a reason. You will find a better person suited for your improved self, and someday the person who hurt you will think of you every night, regret that he lost you while you are in glory.
The past is a stepping stone for the present and a foundation of the future. The outcome of it will rely on the choices we make.
Saturday, July 02, 2011
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